My 100% Honest Review of Well-F**ked Woman
A little before and after for you š The first photo was taken the week I signed up for WFW. The second is from almost exactly two years laterā¦ a couple of weeks before Matthew and I got married.
Itās no secret that I love Kim Anami and her work.
I get questions every day about Well-F**ked Woman (Kimās flagship program) so here it isā¦ my 100% honest review for those of you considering this investment in yourself.
Firstā¦ who is this vaginal-weight-lifting woman??
If you know me, you know Iām allergic to sexual āempowermentā coaches that speak in gentle whispers, have pronouns in their bio, and promote pharmaceutical birth control.
But, Kim Anami is most certainly not some wishy-washy, porn-pushing, lube-loving, wokel.
She is the OG sex coach who pioneered the bridging of taoist lineages with modern womanhood.
Her confronting, crystalline boldness rocked my world.
All of a sudden, the stories I had clung to for years to make sense of my dire lack of libido or bumpinā sex lifeā¦. just fell apart.
You mean ā¦ sex heals?
EVERY woman can have all orgasms?
Vaginal numbness is NOT a life-sentence?
It all landed with that delicious thud of Truth, but my righteous feminist self was rather apprehensive of bikini-clad, sexually confident women ā¦
Then I found out that she took the most curmudgeonly evil woman on the internet, never bought into the rona madness, and was all about freebirth. I listened to all of her podcasts and realized she was the real deal.
So, what exactly is Well-F**ked Woman?
Well-F**ked Woman is an eight-week overhaul of everything you know about sex.
Everything.
Itās a cellular attunement to what is possible for every woman.
(yess, even you who has never had an orgasm)
Basically the sex education I never got (and my guess, you too).
For me, it was a home-comingā¦. to the most sweet and simple and powerful aspect of my human-ness.
And alsoā¦ the portal to my dream life.
My 100% Honest Review š
Two years ago, I popped my credit card details into the Well-F**ked-Woman check-out page.
I was 6 years into a relationship that had gone stale. I rarely ever wanted to have sex, and pretty much cried or panicked or froze every time I triedā¦ and, when that didnāt happen, its just wasnāt that great, ya know? My v*gina was numb.
I really thought this was normalā¦. just the way it is! Most women donāt have great orgasms, right?! I clearly just didnāt luck out in the vaginal physiology department and was doomed to a mediocre sex life.
I had basically resigned to a sex-less relationshipā¦
And then I binged Kimās podcast and there was simply no going back.
All of a sudden this whole realm of possibility opened up in front of meā¦ and I was NOT living another day of my life without knowing if I could feel this magic.
So, on the last day of enrolment, I said yes.
I was living on an organic farm in this little barn shack at the time (no running water kind of vibe) ā¦ but, I diligently watched the videos and did the homework and listened to the calls.
(still rather apprehensive that this would actually work for me)
Wellā¦
Within 3 months of the program ending, I found the courage to leave my long-term relationship that we had both out-grownā¦ surprised the shit out of myself by ejaculating across the roomā¦ and met the most magical lover in my 2000 person small town (this was just the beginning of the serendipity that would continue to unfold in my life)
I swear, every few weeks, I would experience something new and call one of my girlfriends to say āOH MY GOD, Kim was right!ā
My body came back to life (in ways I didnāt even know it was dead).
My vagina no longer felt like a lifeless board that required a 1000-digit access-code. She was wet like never before, and literally gushing. Sex started to actually feel good. Like really good.
Sexā¦ This thing that had felt so fraught and challenging and uncomfortable, began feeling easy and simple.
My cervix that had felt hard and stuck and painlessā¦ slowly softened.
My breasts became mine. Not for men to get off too. MINE. These wonderful soft radiant sensitive intuitive centres, that I loveee.
And without me even consciously noticing... the woman who used to hate sex and feel shame when ever she talked about it ā¦ was FREE. It opened up the most hilarious and healing conversations with my girlfriendsā¦ and allowed me to easily communicate with intimate partners about anything.
As I write this, I could cry.
There is nothing Iām more proud of in my life than this transformation.
To feel this gooood in my body is the most profound gift.
Also, as I donāt think its coincidence at all, I should probably add ā¦ alongside this sexual awakeningā¦ my work and creative life skyrocketed.
When I started Kimās course I had 400 followers on Instagram and worked for $15/hour as a farmerā¦. Now I have 27K followers, I earn more in a month than I used to in an entire year, and I uncovered my genius for writing and poetry and truth-telling.
When I signed up for Well-F**ked Woman I was likeā¦ even if only 10% of this is true for me, I want it.
Which is hilarious to me now, because it all came true.
I am in the most easeful, electric, earthy relationship of my life (after WFW the hunt for āgood menā came to an endā¦ all of a sudden they just popped up all over the place!) and we are in the most precious pre-conception time as we get ready to have a baby (who will of course be conceived in pure orgasmic union!).
I feel so at home in my body.
And really most importantlyā¦ I feel so resilient in my sexualityā¦ I know that no matter what happens, what season Im in, whats going on between Matthew and I ā¦ we have the tools and shared vision to always return to the healing power of sex.
Every year the teachings I learned from Kim deepen and ring truer and truer.
Well F**ked Woman Content
You can get all the details hereā¦. although, I will say that Iāve made men cry tears of joy with the things I learned in Salon 5
Who is Well-F**ked Woman for?
Every woman!!! Kim calls it the Anami Guaranteeā¦ all women, all orgasms.
If this can work for meā¦. numb, totally-shut-off, frozen meā¦ I really do believe itās possible for all of us.
Who is Well-F**ked Woman NOT for?
Look, there were moments (many) when I was thoroughly uninspired by my numb vagina. Lack of sensation is not exactly motivatingā¦ I definitely shed some tears over feeling like nothing was working, and wondering if I was actually just broken..
But I kept doing the work anyway.
If you want instant resultsā¦ THIS IS NOT FOR YOU.
Also, itās not for you if you want your life to stay the same.
One thing I learned harddd, is that you donāt get a new pussy, a new sex lifeā¦ without becoming a new woman.
Vaginas do not lieā¦
When you do the work to come home to your body, anything that is not true in your life will begin to unravel.
Not everyone is a yes to that kind of unknown.
What Well-F**ked Woman Is And What It Isnāt
This is not a pill.
More like one of those sexy antique keys that unlocks the oldest, most decadent and sexy castles in the world.
But you have to do the work. You have to choose again and again to open the doors without knowing what the actual f**k will happen on the other side.
Well-F**ked Woman changed my life. But I was willing for that to happen. I had a YES. And Iāve lived and learned a lot of other things in these two years that have also been integral to that process.
There is no one pill, or course, or coach, or mentor, or mantra.
There is just one thread at a time.
One. At. A. Time.
No cheating. (Iāve tried).
Why Iām Promoting Well F**ked Woman
Iām a very proud affiliate of Well-F**ked Womanā¦ hereās whyā¦
This has had a HUGE impact on every area of my life, and Iāve learned that my community really appreciates when I share these kind of things.
The women of this world need this information!! And I donāt teach it. I do NOT have the expertise and experience that Kim has.
The day Kim asked if I wanted to be an affiliate for Well F**ked Woman, I was an immediate yesā¦ I was already sending so many women her way because there is no other sexuality teacher that I trust or align with.
When you purchase WFW I get a commission! Itās the most wonderful thing to make money sending the women of my community that I love, to a teacher of mine that I love.
If every woman was tapped into her sexual energy in a clean and simple and embodied wayā¦ the world would probably just explode from the potency of it.
Thats what Im here for.
